Dreaming to catch attention of your favorite guy?? Read on…

Stop waiting for that one-fine-morning when the guy would propose to you … step out of the shy-girl closet and look around.  With an overwhelming range of ways to approach your man, finding love is no longer a problematic task!

Guys get attracted to gurls in a step wise process… Yes, absolutely!

Men start assessing a woman with her looks. Therefore, it becomes important to look attractive to start the process of interest-building. Men are prone to discuss the women they like with their friends and often bet on who can get a better girl. To make yourself the most desirable of all, you just need to have an uncomplicated style and sophisticated air about you. Dress well, do not wear too much make-up and avoid being messy. These things would surely impress a guy. Attraction happens quickly for girls who do not wear specs is a myth. Choose your specs with care- do not imitate what others are wearing, go for what suits you best. Remember, guys are more interested in the eyes of their girls.

Men look for that charming appearance and chirpiness in a girl which is distinct as well as natural. They would like to see something extremely extraordinary about their girl either in looks or in personality which makes her different from the rest. What you need to do is to just highlight your talent in an effortless way. Guys like girls who are at ease with themselves and are confident. In most cases, men look for some similarities in the attitude towards life and some kind of sharing of interests in the girl of their choice. So, it becomes very important to know the kind of person your guy is. This can be done with your own experience or by listening to others- but keep in mind that you must not believe each and everything. It is recommended that you make your own impression through talking and spending time together.

Even if you are not that interested in sports or theatre or music and instead, a rather studious person, do not worry. Your attitude should speak for you- look straight into the eyes while talking and wear a nice smile. Just keep in mind that your intelligence should not be like that of a book-addict. Rather, it should be made apparent through sweetness and in small doses. Do not overwhelm your guy by a display of what you know- he might reject you as over-intellectual and not-his-type.

To impress a guy with talking involves a balance of intelligence and light-heartedness.

Crack jokes, be witty and do not take offence at the slightest of provocations. Be a little patient with men, they require a lot more time to adjust. Your body- language must be like that of a friend and not the-most-restricted-and-careful at all times. The most important thing to remember is not to bore him with the talk of your family. Guys hate to hear about the details of your dad’s profession or your mom’s friends! Rather, tell him about your individual

interests or your recent holiday to make him aware of aspects of your personality while you are with him.

Avoid being too formal- invite the guy for a coffee or offer to walk with him if he is going somewhere for a small errand. It is a nice thing to introduce your friends to him and befriend his. This would only enable greater interaction and sharing of a more common space which would lead you to reach a level of comfort while trying to impress the man with words when you are alone.

This would also be helpful for you to know the extent to which he is attracted towards you.

The Bottomline: Simplicity is the key to reach a man’s heart!

Forget the easier- said- than- done days and approach the woman with full confidence and positive attitude. Women love to be with men who can look straight into their eyes and talk without hesitating. Wear a smile whenever you are near her and if the woman smiles backs at you it’s a positive sign. But watch out… if she smiles too much chances are she might be taking you to be a fool. A sense of humor is a must but silly jokes can be a total put off!

The most important thing to keep in mind while you impress a girl by talking is to talk sensibly and confidently.

An intelligent approach is to befriend the group of friends she has- this helps you to know what her likes and dislikes are. Do not follow her to the extent of irritating her- don’t ignore her either. Familiarize yourself with the activities she participates in and if you’re ignorant about the details- googling would definitely help!  Keep yourself updated to avoid feeling stupid. Keep yourself calm, it might take time.

Women are clever- they can tell when you are pretending. Watch your body language at all times but do not overdo- neither in dressing up nor in talking. Dress well- choose your color combinations wisely. She should not take you as outdated in fashion sense. And most importantly- never put her off with body odor! It’s hazardous!!

Talk less- do not ask too much! While trying to impress a girl with words you must not ignore her interests- take care of them as well. Prefer listening to her especially when there is nobody else around.  Women generally have lots to say without your asking it! Don’t lie about anything she asks you, even if it’s about your ex- girlfriend. It’d be disastrous if she finds it out from somebody else. Treat her as your greatest friend and confidant… share even the most private details about yourself with her. This is the moment to confirm if she is interested in you. Watch out for the signals she sends- you would know your effort to woo her is proving fruitful if she shows interest in even the most trivial of your talks and asks you details about the same.

Complimenting your woman definitely helps! You must be aware of her tastes and avoid imposing your own on her. Even if you dislike something that she’s wearing hold your breath- don’t just say it straight in her face. Rather tell her that she looks great every time but whenever you think about her you see her in your favorite dress (and mention the dress too). When you see her wearing it the next time- smile. And if it’s soon… it’s a positive sign my friend!

The bottom line: Stop looking for methods. Watch your instincts instead!

Author : Priyanka S Rana